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 Friday Facts 2008-04-18 FRIDAY FACTS
BCA’s Weekly Newsletter
4/18/08
Dear Friends,
Generally I resist giving my opinion on how to parent unless directly invited to make suggestions because I know how hard it is having raised three sons but this article titled Missed Opportunities is special.
Every day parents have opportunities to touch the hearts of their children. Sometimes it’s through a story or a hug, or an apology, but often it’s through the daily correction that children need.
Addressing the heart is important. Unfortunately some parents respond to their children in ways that miss the heart. One of the mistakes parents make is that they make excuses for their children. We’ve all heard them.
He’ll grow out of it.
She’s so cute.
At least she’s doing what I asked.
He’s tired.
He’s just going through a stage.
At least she’s better than other kids her age.
That’s the way kids are.
She’s a teenager.
He’s a two-year old.
He’s a boy
She could be a lot worse.
Each of these is an excuse for not disciplining and often represents a missed opportunity to teach or direct a child on a deeper level. Remember, we aren’t just trying to help children change on the outside to develop appropriate behavior. We’re trying to help them change their hearts.
Since these statements might have truths behind them, we may choose to discipline a little differently, postpone a consequence, or redirect children. There’s nothing wrong with that, but we must be careful not to ignore heart issues in the process.
Look for ways to challenge your children on a heart level this week. You’ll be surprised at how many opportunities are out there.
From the National Center for Biblical Parenting
Have a great Sabbath!
Mr. Kossick, Principal |
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